The Power of Visualization for Performance Success

Have you ever had a performance situation in which you pictured it going poorly?

Maybe you were going to speak in front of a large group, go to a possible career-changing interview, play in an important golf tournament, ask someone on a date or audition for a part in a theater production.

As you began to see it going poorly you became more and more anxious.

The ability to perform at our absolute best, when it really matters, is often a result of how we anticipate and ‘visualize’ the situation.

One of my mentors, Dr. Don Greene, has said,

Prior to performing, what you ‘see’ in your mind, whether its weeks or just days before, will tend to become who you are in that situation.”

I have found that Visualization is a performance enhancement skill that is very powerful when it is practiced and applied. It is a skill that allows you, as a performer, to rehearse, review and focus on optimal performance.

Ironically, many performers use imagery in a negative way, that is, they ‘picture’ themselves performing poorly and subsequently express this negative rehearsal through an anxiety-filled performance.

Visualization is one of the most effective techniques for you to use in preparing for optimal performance. If you cannot imagine performing well then you have very little chance of actually doing that, especially during a pressure situation.

Enhancing your performance includes practicing the technique of Visualization to achieve your best. I will use the fear of public speaking (which creates anxiety for most people!) as an example to describe the 6 key steps to practice:

1) Start with a clear intention. What is it that you intend to achieve in your performance? For example, is your intention to give your speech in a relaxed way, feeling in complete control of yourself?

2) Center yourself physically and mentally. Take a slow, deep focused breath to slow down any anxiety or stress during your mental rehearsal.

3) Imagine what your intention would look like. Try to see, feel, and hear yourself doing well as you give a powerful and effective presentation. Break up your mental rehearsal performance into segments, i.e. see yourself preparing to give you presentation, then picture the next segment as you are being introduced, then as you walk up to present, etc. Picture each of these segments as clearly as possible.

4) Use all of your senses. Picture yourself walking up to speak, feel your hands on the podium, hear yourself as your words come out smoothly and effortlessly, listen to the audience applauding your speech, feel how great it feels to walk off knowing you did a great job!

5) Correct your mistakes. You will discover that even during Visualization you will find yourself picturing making a mistake or becoming afraid. So you need to stop the tape and rewind! Yes, go back in your rehearsal to the spot where you ‘messed ‘up’ and continue from there with a picture of you doing well. Correct your mistake until you can clearly see yourself doing well.

6) Be creative and have fun! Visualization is a very powerful technique that can be used in any performance situation. Expand using this technique in new situations until you become better and better at it.

Practice Visualization and make it a valuable skill in you performance enhancement ‘toolbox’.

Your real-life performance will continue to improve the more that you can ‘experience’ (see, hear and feel) the performance in your Visualization. Have fun practicing this powerful skill!

The Power of Persistence for Creative Success (Video)

As a creative or performer, I suspect that there are times that you find yourself feeling challenged to stay engaged with your projects, to persevere, to hang tough and not give up. Persistence is often an ongoing challenge, one that, if not managed well, can lead to creative stagnation and a falling short of achieving your creative and business goals.

In this video I share 3 Powerful Steps towards becoming mentally tough through persistence. I hope that you enjoy it and find it valuable!

Click here to watch!

10 Things to Remember During a Panic Attack

If fear creates obstacles in your life, performance or business, I hope that these 10 tips are valuable during times of feeling extreme anxiety and panic.

1. If you feel frightened, unreal or unsteady – it does not matter. These feelings are nothing more than an exaggeration of your body’s normal reaction to stress.

2. Just because you have these sensations doesn’t mean you are very sick. These feelings are just unpleasant and frightening, not dangerous. Nothing worse will happen to you.

3. Let your feelings come. They have been in charge of you. You’ve been pumping them up and making them more acute. Stop escalating the feelings! Don’t run away from panic. When you feel the panic mount, take a deep breath and as you breathe out, let go. Keep trying. Stay there almost as if you were floating in space. Don’t fight the feelings of panic. Accept it. You can do it!

4. Try to make yourself as comfortable as possible without escaping. If you are on the street, lean against a post or store wall. If you’re in a store, tell the sales person you don’t feel well and want to sit awhile. Do not jump in your car and go home in fear.

5. Stop adding to your panic with frightening thoughts about what is happening and where it might lead. Don’t indulge in your feelings and think, “Why can’t I be like all the other normal people? Why do I have to go through this?” Just accept what is happening to you. If you do this, what you fear most will not happen.

6. Think about what is really happening to your body at this moment. Do not think, “Something terrible is going to happen. I must get out.” Repeat to yourself, “I will not fall, faint, die, or lose control.”

7. Now wait and give the fear time to pass. Do not run away. Others have found the strength. You will, too. Notice that as you stop adding to the frightening thoughts to your panic, the fear starts to fade away by itself.

8. This is your opportunity to practice. Think of it that way. Even if you feel isolated, one of these days you will not feel that way. Sometime soon you will be able to go through the panic and say, “I did it.” Once you say this, you will have gone a long way toward conquering fear.

9. Try to distract yourself from what is going on inside you. Look at your surroundings. See the other people on the street, in the store. They are with you, not against you.

10. When the panic subsides, let your body go loose, take a breath, and go on with your day. Remember, each time you cope with panic, you reduce fear.

Handling Creative Anxiety (Video)

I wonder if you have ever found yourself needing to be creative, yet felt a lack of self-confidence in taking risks and trying something outside of your ‘comfort zone’?Many of the coaching clients that I work with struggle with their creative process. Whether they are in business, are an artist, entrepreneur or performer of any type, their ability to remove obstacles to creativity is foundational to moving forward with success.

This video is for anyone who, in any situation that requires creativity, experiences self-doubt and anxiety that leads to feeling stuck and unproductive. Click here to watch.

5 Steps To Emotional Independence

It has been said that dependency obliterates individual identity, i.e., the more dependent you are on what others think of you, the less of an individual identity you will have. The more you fear being rejected, the less creative and successful you will be in your business, in any performance situation, as a creative and in life in general.

Yet, to truly feel confident and to experience less anxiety in any area of your life, steps must be taken to move beyond emotional dependence and towards what I call emotional independence.

Let’s take a look at 5 steps to grow towards healthy emotional independence.

Accept your Uniqueness

Do not be afraid to be different! I suspect that you are often afraid to stand out from others. It feels so much safer to just ‘blend in’ and to not take the risks that are necessary to move forward in life. “What if no one likes my new art piece? What if my performance as a musician is not received well? What if my friends reject me if I have different opinions or beliefs?” This fear-based self-talk can go on and on until there is no unique YOU left! Yet, to live a life of happiness and to be successful in any endeavor you approach, It is crucial to discover and celebrate how unique you are.

Do not be afraid to be different – accept your uniqueness.

Lose Your Fear of Perfect People

If you find a perfect person, please take a photo and send it to me, I would love to meet them! Perfect people Do… Not… Exist. What exists are false fronts, people who look perfect, who look like they’ve got it all together. They might be really eloquent when they talk or are so at ease at a party. At church they appear so spiritual and seem to really be self-confident. Oh, you wish you could be like that. Look at how creative they are compared to you. You tell yourself that you are so far below them and that you will never be as good at this or that. This message that you give yourself gets very, very discouraging.

Part of the journey in becoming emotionally independent is working on changing this false belief that it is possible to be perfect or to be like someone else. The fact is, you do not want to be like someone else. You do not want to lose yourself to something, or someone, that you feel you should become.

It is time to stop comparing and to lose your fear of perfect people.

Handling Stage Fright (Video)

Anyone who is in a performance situation and feels pressure can experience stage fright. This can be as a performing artist, business speaker or even having to give an announcement at church.

Stage Fright affects public speakers, creatives, musicians and even entrepreneurs who use public presentations or video to build their businesses.

The following is a video that I created that will be a part of a new upcoming Program, The Great Creativity Toolkit, which should be available in a few months. I though it would be valuable to give you a sneak peak at one of my videos that will be included in the Program. I hope that you enjoy it and find it valuable! (Just click on the image below to begin the video)